Friday, August 31, 2012

{my bad mood}

...can't mostly be attributed to PMSing. Not that you wanted to know. I thought I would share anyways. Open and honest peeps, that how I roll (most of the time).

It is now Friday and I am in a much better mood. I just needed to get a bitch post out of the way and I did. It isn't new news to me that I am my biggest supporter and can really be the only one who can kick my arse into high gear. It isn't new to me that I CHOOSE to eat like I do and that I CHOOSE to not work out. I make all of my own choices. No one can MAKE me eat good and no one can MAKE me work out. I need to be the one to do that.

I think my biggest fault is being selfish. Something I apparently need to work on not only in this area of my life, but in other areas as well. But friends, that is a whole other can of worms...

I crave the way chocolate tastes as it melts on my tongue. I openly enjoy dessert! Please tell me someone who doesn't!

I also enjoy my free time. I crave that hour at the end of the day alone, comfy in my bed, with the television on. The boob tube and me... we are good friends! So much so that I'm sure it would love to tell you that I spend a good chunk of the afternoon in front of it watching Melissa and Joey re-runs on the ABC Family channel the other day. (To be honest, that show is pretty darn hilarious and I had seen NONE of the episodes and they just kept coming on... who could turn it off with all of the hilarity?! Seriously people, it definitely had me laughing out loud more than once! Okay, now you all know about my secret love affair with the ABC Family channel.)

But seriously, I am selfish, I enjoy 'me' time. To be more specific, I enjoy relaxing 'me' time. If I use my 'me' time to work out, then when do I get my down 'me' time? Yup, selfish. There said it. Can't tell you how much I miss the fact that there will be no more weekends alone when Jay and Ayden go 'home' because we now live in the same city as 'home' which means they can actually come home at the end of their trip. Did that make sense? Ha! I relish nights alone in my, sorry, our bed. Have I mentioned I'm selfish?! However, have to say that despite not getting any more nights alone in our bed, I have definitely gotten a lot of 'me' time with living so close to family now. More than I've ever gotten in a single three month span in the last seven years of living in Stevens Point. Have I mentioned that I miss Stevens Point? I do. I miss it a lot some days. LOVE my family! LOVE living closer! And LOVE that they love my little man so much too! But some days it is still all a little too much to take in. I miss having to take care of everything myself because I like control and I don't want to become too reliant on anyone else.

I have come to the conclusion that I need to stop just trying to jump head first into getting in fabulous shape and realize it isn't an over night thing. Of course I know it isn't an over night thing, duh, but some part of me still wishes it was. Doesn't everyone. I need to slowly focus on one thing and then another and then it will get done. Keep the focus Ashley, keep the focus!

By the way, just in case anyone was wondering... the Jif Chocolate Hazelnut spread does not measure up to Nutella. Yes, it is good, but Nutella... it is SO much better. Yeah, I knew you were wondering. And yeah, I do eat it straight out of the jar. I may or may not have eaten more than one jar of Nutella straight off of a spoon. Choco-holics anonymous anyone? Just pretend you didn't read that, umkay?!

CIAO! LOVE ME!

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

{need a kick in the arse}


I tell myself each and every day... today is a new day... today you will eat good... today you will work out... and end each day, tomorrow is a new day, tomorrow you WILL eat good... tomorrow you WILL work out... and I've been starting every following day by stepping on the scale and only seeing it increase. Friends, my scale has hit a number I refused to see on it in the last five months. Please shut your gaping mouth at me with your comments of you skinny bitch, you don't need to worry about your weight. My blog, my issues. Yup, thank you.

I worked my arse off to reach 115 lbs before we moved. Then we moved. Then I started my externship. Then summer came and lots of family get togethers with lots of yummy food. And there went my motivation. And there went my good eating. I have a soft spot for chocolate. I canNOT stop eating it. And now... I weigh five pounds more than I want to. FIVE FREAKING POUNDS! The same FIVE FREAKING POUNDS that it took me almost three months to lose in the first place. Vomit in my mouth. I am SO disappointed in myself and then feeling bad about it just makes me want to dig into a big pint of Ben and Jerry's and continue to tell myself that tomorrow will be a better day and cross my fingers and hope that the next morning somehow that extra weight will melt off in my sleep. And we are talking five freaking pounds more than I want to weigh in the morning at the beginning of my day stepping on the scale stark naked! Because yes, I don't want my pj t-shirt, glasses, or my underwear adding even an ounce of extra weight to the number the scale reads out. I am neurotic and slightly over obsessive like that. So that means by the end of the day, I'm probably closer to six or SEVEN pounds more than I want to be! Even more vomit! And truth be told, I'm probably better off at 120 lbs than 115 lbs, but only if I were to get my arse into better physical shape. My 120 lbs right now includes a gut that is more flab than ab... ugh! 

Come someone somewhere please develop a way for me to enjoy a nightly bowl of chocolate ice cream without having to pay for it in the morning?! PLEASE! I mean seriously, I was doing SO well yesterday... until I got home. Being at home is my weakness. Who in their right mind can turn away Grandma Hoerth 'bag o cake'? Especially when it not only has cherry chip, but also marble in it? Delish, no? OF COURSE!

My physical activity level has been next to nil too! No wonder so much of the working world is obese. Hell, the last thing I want to do after a long arse day at clinic is come home and work out. I am exhausted! I know my piss poor attitude about it lately doesn't help either.

Remember when I said life ebbs and flows... I think I'm ebbing right now. Maybe it has something to do with the impending arrival of my monthly friend. Jay would be the first to jump in and say I'm PMSing right now and that could be it... hormones running tight and high maybe?! I've been a bit snippy, I know I have. It kind of started on Sunday when we sat at home and did nothing all day. I was SO ready to be back to clinic on Monday and ended up having a really good day, and then got home and was sort of in a bad mood. 

I wish I had someone I could routinely be active with... someone that would keep me accountable at a specific time every day. It is so much easier to work out with someone and be motivated, or at least maybe that is me. Or maybe I am just in need of a good arse kicking. Or maybe I'm just PMSing and next week will be totally different. 

In any case, I think I just like typing the word arse today. There you have it... now someone give me a good kick!

CIAO! LOVE ME!

Sunday, August 26, 2012

{back to the grind}

After four days off (courtesy of my supervisor having vacation), I can't believe I am saying this, but I am ready to head back to clinic tomorrow. Working girl here... just guess it was meant to be. Love being at home with Ayden, but need my patients as well. We have definitely enjoyed the last four days together. On Thursday, we had Ayden's cousin (and mine), Mitchell, over for the day and they had a TON of fun together. I am sad that we didn't do it sooner in the summer. Because they kept each other busy for the majority of the day, it left me with some time to just chill. Actually, I got caught up on my laundry that day and started cleaning for Ayden's birthday party yesterday, which by the way was awesome!

Jay and I sort of got into it on Thursday night. You know, that old adage of open communication isn't always my forte. He had been gone every night that week thus far and we hadn't really got to spend any time together... especially since he tends to go to bed earlier than me most nights. I was sort of looking forward to Thursday, as not only would I actually get to see him, but there was quite a bit of cleaning that needed to be done. Well, not so much cleaning, as there was shit of his that needed to be put away and I wasn't going to be doing any of the putting away. Nothing pisses this woman off more than getting something out and then just letting it sit for weeks on end... NOTHING!!! This type A personality likes to keep a clean home (most of the time)... that's just me. Talk to me after I have more little munchkins running around the house and that very well may be completely different. I do have pictures from when Ayden was younger and we have toys strewn EVERYWHERE in the living room. Now that he is old enough to mostly pick up after himself, I make a habit of having him do that. Do I allow toys to stay out overnight, of course, my house isn't ALWAYS in order. Case in point, because I refuse to do the dishes, there are almost ALWAYS a pile of dishes on my counter. Oh well, haha!

Anyways, back to what I was saying about Jay... he called me at 2:30pm and told me he was on his way home from work and needed to stop at his parents for something quick. By 4pm, he was STILL not home and so Ayden and I went to drop Mitchell off and then went for a bike ride when we got home. As we were getting home from our bike ride around 5pm (or maybe a little after), Jay was leaving the house to take his parent's lawn mower back. When he got home after 7pm, I was a little peaved because we still needed to get groceries for Ayden's party. He went shopping alone and we didn't speak for the rest of the night. So much for seeing him that night. Ugh! We were fine again though when he got home after work on Friday.

On Friday afternoon, my sister Alexis came over to spend the night and play with Ayden. Love that those two can also keep each other company, but it is tiring with two of them, no doubt! Just watching them exhausted me, haha! They were both a great help on Saturday morning with some last minute cleaning and all of the decorating! They did all of the decorating and even though it was Ashley perfect, it was Ayden and Alexis perfect and I didn't change anything! They were so proud of themselves with the decorating! The party was great and I cannot thank my family enough for coming over and celebrating Ayden's birthday with us. We have the best family in the world! Jay's grandma even brought us some flowers from her garden. Literally the sweetest grandma EVER! Although, Jay's other grandma comes in a close second. I couldn't be marrying into a better family! (That's not to say my grandparents aren't pretty awesome either... I have some VERY fond memories of supper at my dad's parent's house with everyone coming over, and still love the impromptu get-togethers there!)

I was supposed to have a senior photoshoot this morning, but the rain put a kaboosh on that. I was bummed as I scoured Pinterest last night for inspiration and found some awesome stuff and was excited about it! I was able to reschedule with the client for next weekend. Next weekend and the weekend after are going to be super busy. Next weekend I am photographing a wedding with my cousin that I am really excited about, then the senior shoot, and the weekend after I had two photoshoots on Saturday and then another one scheduled for Sunday... busy busy busy! I don't have anything planned for the following weekend after that and don't know if I want to plan anything for it right now, haha! I will probably need some downtime! I remember that I was really busy at this time last year as well with photoshoots.

Little man starts 3rd grade next week... ugh, haha!

CIAO! LOVE ME!

Thursday, August 23, 2012

{annual schwobe camping}

My birthday fell on our annual Schwobe camping weekend this year and it couldn't have been better. It was one of the best birthdays I have had in a LONG time!

Every year, a few of my aunts on my dad's side (the Schwobe side) say that they are not going camping the following year and yet every year, almost everyone comes. This year was no exception. (Although two families were unable to make it, we still had a great time. Also, my sister, Emily, had a friend's wedding to attend and although I know she had a good time at the wedding, we still missed her at camping!)

It was almost the perfect set up for the camp sites. Almost everyone gets a cabin wherever we end up being at and this year the community gathering site was close to everyone and no one had to walk very far to their cabins, whereas in years past, someone usually ends up having to walk a ways away. Also, this year was the first year that my dad's oldest sister and her children (well two of the three) came to camping and I think that they all enjoyed themselves too!

I didn't see Ayden much of the weekend because he was too busy playing with his (our) cousin, Mitchell, who is the same age as him. Because the campgrounds themselves were relatively small, I was not afraid to let those two go biking around by themselves. They did have a pool at the campgrounds, although I decided not to go swimming. It was just a bit too chilly for me to enjoy swimming outside. But, Ayden, and many of my other cousins had a blast in the pool and I had just as great of a time watching them!

My birthday was on Saturday, the only full day that we were there, and it was a lot of fun. I made a yummy chocolate cake for everyone, Jay made his yummy tinfoil potatoes, and I even got to go on a nature hike that was BEAUTIFUL! If you live in the Dells area, you HAVE to check out Parfrey's Glen! The walk (with four of my aunts and two of my cousins) started out on a paved path through the woods that led to a crushed gravel pathway that soon led to us hoping rocks across a small stream and then led to climbing big boulders! My kind of nature hike! After getting there, I knew that it was a place that Ayden would have loved to go as well, but he stayed back at the campsite with Mitch to play, which was fine with me. Beth (one of my cousins) and I were even scaling a rock wall at one point! Too much fun... wait, it was my birthday, can one have too much fun on their birthday?!

It was really just nice to be surrounded by my family on my birthday and to feel the love, haha!

That night, I told Jay that I wanted to go to the casino (which happened to be right down the road from the campsite, I mean we are talking the Dells) to get some free money. I mean, the casino should give you some free money on your birthday, right?! Okay, so they gave me a measely five dollars. But a free five dollars is better than no free money at all. I also was going to spend $20... so not putting in more than $25... I quickly went through my $20 on the slot machines, oops, I am not a very good gambler and then I got pissed because I couldn't figure out how to get my $5 off of my little card thingy. Well, Jay figured it out for me after I pouted for a little bit. I mean seriously, I had my $20 spent not even a half hour after we arrived, lol! And by the time Jay spent my $5 in free play, he had earned me back another $15. I should have stopped there, but I didn't and I blew that down to $2, but then made it back and cashed out with just under $10. I think Jay cashed out with a decent amount of money as well, but we still ended up losing like $5 or $6... not too bad for just playing the slots... at least I didn't think so.

Sunday was pack up day and head home… I spent the rest of the afternoon holed up in my bedroom relaxing and watching TV, it was the perfect end to my weekend!

CIAO! LOVE ME!

{little man’s birthday}

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I am in awe, complete awe, today yesterday...

I am the mother to one of the most precious little 8 year old boys there is. Me. How special!

Eight years ago, today yesterday, my little man made his entrance into this world. It is a day that this momma will never forget.

I think back over the last eight years and cannot imagine a second of my life without my little man. There have been occasions where I have wondered what life might have been without him in it and things are just never very clear or bright. It is hard to even fathom what life might be like right now... completely and utterly not the same.

Ayden Dallas Hoerth, you bring more joy and light into my world than even I thought possible!

I am not a perfect mom and I don't strive to be, because I know it isn't possible. But I do strive to be the best momma I can to you. You are at an age now where you hold nothing in and most of the time it is SO sweet. You are so open with your love right now and it makes me melt inside when you haven't seen me all day and you come running to give me a hug. I enjoy nothing more than cuddling with you after a long stressful day at work and getting your hugs and smooches.

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CIAO! LOVE ME!

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

{really THE one}

A number of weeks ago I stopped at a small bridal boutique with a friend of mine and our little guys. At that time, I tried on just a few wedding dresses, it being the first time that I was at a place that had more than just a select few dresses and a number of them in my price range… If you read my blog, you may remember me mentioning that I thought I had found my wedding dress, but I couldn’t buy it then because I hadn’t gone shopping with my mom and sister yet.

I planned a day to go back to the shop with my mom and sister this past week, so I could show them the dress and possibly try on a few more. My sister’s boyfriend happened to be in town as well and he offered to watch Ayden while we went shopping. SO nice of him!

When we got to the boutique, we started to peruse the racks of gowns and I started to pull more and more. I ended up pulling one that was completely not the look that I had in mind and didn’t think I was going to end up liking it, but it was really pretty on the hanger. I also had the consultant put ‘my dress’ into the dressing room without showing my mom and sister first. I think I had another five dresses to try on that day.

I also pulled a number of bridesmaid dresses for my sister to try on as well… there was quite a few! (Thankfully, one of my other bridesmaids showed up and she tried some dresses on as well, so my sister didn’t have to try them all on.)

As I started to try on the wedding dresses, I kept ‘my dress’ until the second last one. I tried on a poufy dress and although it was very pretty, it just wasn’t me. Oh well. I still liked ‘my dress’ well enough, but at that point I was starting to second guess my thoughts about it. I mean, it was still a very pretty dress, but I just wasn’t as sure about it. I kept the dress that was really pretty, but didn’t think would be my taste, for the last one. For some reason, I had a really good feeling about it.

I put the dress on and while I was in the dressing room with the consultant clamping the back so it would stay up, haha, I saw myself in the mirror and I think I knew then that it was THE dress. I went to show my mom and sister and although I feel like neither of them would have told me that they didn’t really care for a dress that I was trying on… prefer one over the other, sure, but not totally dislike. It still felt really weird trying on wedding dresses and feeling like that at some point I am actually going to be the one getting married instead of everyone around me.

In the end, I ended up getting the last dress I tried on with a super cute headband (that I probably could have found cheaper someplace else, but I liked it too much). Because I bought and paid for the dress that day, I was able to take a picture of myself in the dress. (Okay, so my lovely sister did that for me.) And to be honest, I cannot stop looking at it! Like, wish my wedding was tomorrow cannot stop looking at it. I know that I said I liked, maybe even loved, the first dress that I thought was THE one, but this is different. The whole feeling I got while in the dress was different. If you’ve gotten married and/or went wedding dress shopping and found your dress, you know what I am talking about. I would so post a picture of the dress; however, I cannot 100% guarantee that somehow Jay will not come across my blog and as much as I don’t care about him seeing the dress before the wedding, I don’t think he really wants to, so with that… I will not be posting a picture of the dress.

If you happen to know me in real life and have my phone number and would like to see the dress, feel free to send me a text and I will send you the picture.

As I mentioned before, my sister and friend, Kristi, tried on bridesmaid dresses and I found the one I want for the bridesmaids too. Originally I thought I wouldn't mind if the bridesmaids had different dresses and its not that I have anything against that because I've seen multiple weddings where that has been the case recently, but the more I thought about it, the more I wanted everyone matching. I don't know, maybe I will become a bridezilla eventually... okay, probably not, but I can get pretty picky about certain things, hehe! I also found the dress I want my youngest sister, Alexis to wear as well! So excited!

Literally canNOT stop thinking about it now!

CIAO! LOVE ME!

Thursday, August 16, 2012

{unconventional}

It isn't new news that Jay and I did everything in an unconventional manner (so far, in our relationship). Heck, even how we started dating was unconventional. The guy crashed my car into a tree!

Was our path rooted from the beginning that we would be different? I'm not all superstitious like that, but maybe!

Our relationship from the beginning was the typical high school relationship, and then I got pregnant. Oops?!

Then we moved to Stevens Point and went to college. I graduated, he graduated, I started grad school...

We 'got engaged' a couple of years ago. There was no specific date, no actual proposal, just decided. Well, in reality, I was perusing Craigslist one night, found a ring I liked in a price we could afford at that time and told Jay that that was what I wanted and we could become engaged. Up until that point we had somewhat talked marriage together, but it was always me that wanted to wait. I had even specifically told Jay before that, that if he asked me to marry him that I would say 'no'. Great, right?! And then I realized that I didn't know what I was waiting for, that my one and only was and always had been standing right in front of me. So, we bought the ring and became 'officially engaged' (despite the fact that at that time, the wedding would still be years and years away).

For a long time I didn't mind that I didn't get the whole big proposal thing. Jay and I just don't do things like everyone else, so it was really no surprise to me that we randomly got engaged. Not to mention that it took almost forever to answer the 'When is the wedding?' question with something other than 'Oh, sometime after I graduate (again!)' to 'September 21, 2013' and for that to not sound like light years away. Now I can say with ease, 'Oh, next September' and be excited about it.

I was in love with my ring... the simplicity of it. It wasn't ultra big, but I liked it. IMG_5145Until recently, when I started to feel the pull to get something of my own. I have nothing against the fact that I got a 'used' ring. I wouldn't have gotten it otherwise. But always moving forward is my motto and after almost five years with my current ring, I wanted to upgrade. I talked with Jay about it and he said that I could upgrade if I paid for it myself. What?! Bummer! However, I figured almost as much and knew I would have enough money from my photography set aside by late October and was set to find a ring come that time. I had plans on turning my current set and a necklace I didn't wear very often in for trade in value and knew I would get at least a few hundred dollars for that.

A couple of weeks ago, as I was on my way home on a Friday night, I called Jay to let him know that I wanted to go to Walmart to check for Ayden's birthday present and pick up a few groceries when I got home. Ayden was already gone camping with Jay's parents, so we were child free for the night. As we were headed to my car, I told Jay that he was driving because I had just driven from work and didn't want to drive anymore. We got in the car and we headed out in the opposite direction of Walmart. Um, okay? Where are we going?

Unbeknownst to me, Jay thought it might be a good idea to surprise me with a trip to Kay Jewelers to look at rings... just look, don't buy. Hmm, okay?! We can look, I suppose. I had it in my head I wasn't going shopping until late October, but now is fine, just to look. Not buy.

Or not.

Needless to say, we ended up buying, both a new bridal set for me and a wedding ring for Jay. The rings were on sale and I couldn't pass up the deal. And, Jay ended up getting a Kay's credit card and our first payment wouldn't be due until the end of September. I already had about 1/4 of the amount saved up and will have another 1/4 saved by the end of October. So already half of it is already paid for. Needless to say, I ended up getting something that cost more than I had originally planned, haha! But I got a TON more for my ring than I had thought I would. Hehe, but I didn't go overboard.

Actually, I didn't even pick it out. I picked out two sets that I liked and then left the store and let Jay pick out which one I was going to get. I like a little surprise in my life sometimes. Plus, I couldn't really decide on which one I liked best and wanted Jay to pick it out for me. It took over a week for the rings to come in and during that time my finger felt SO naked, like seriously, cover me up naked! I have been wearing a ring on that finger for the last how many years and it has become a part of me and now there is nothing there.

So, when the rings finally came in, I couldn’t wait to see what Jay had decided upon. I was hoping for some super sweet actual proposal this time around, but didn’t get one. That’s okay though, it’s Jay, wasn’t really expecting it. On the other hand though, Jay did did get me some roses on the same night he gave me my ring and he told me that he would ‘love me until the last petal fell’. I thought it was super cute and then he told me that I didn’t ‘get it’. Little did I know that one of the roses was fake, so the last petal would never fall and therefore he would love me forever. Mushy gushy! (Although, I highly doubt he came up with that himself, it was still super cute!) I don’t get flowers very often from him, so this was special.

And now… some pictures of my new ring! I know that you’ve probably just scrolled down this far to see them anyways. Hehe!IMG_5692The whole set… 401 days until I get to wear the other two rings!IMG_5694IMG_5695IMG_5700The pretty roses!IMG_5701IMG_5703And maybe it’s bad luck to take a picture of your wedding rings before the actual wedding, but I don’t believe in all of that jinxing stuff, so I had to take a few pictures of my ring and Jay’s ring already… sue me, I love ring pictures, hehe!IMG_5729IMG_5730IMG_5735IMG_5741You likey? Me likey!

CIAO! LOVE ME!

Monday, August 13, 2012

{say cheese}

My weekend went pretty well. I had two photo shoots this weekend. One was a senior session and another was a family session and both went great. I shared some sneak peaks up on my photography page and will be busy editing the rest of them in the days to come! I have six more photo shoots scheduled through the middle of October. This is definitely a busy time of year for me and I love it. I will admit, that I get a little worn out by the end of the fall, but then I tend to have a few months with little to no shoots because of our lovely Wisconsin weather, and get ready for them again in the Spring. I itch to be behind the camera and love it! I had so much fun with the two photo shoots I did this weekend. I love that I can make a few extra bucks from it and do it on the side. I will admit, because I am doing more and more for individuals that I do not know, the pressure that comes along with producing a good shoot rises a little bit, but I think it also pushes me out of the box to be the best I can be. And when I release the shutter on my camera, my insides swell with joy. I get a high from taking pictures and being behind the camera. I've always loved taking pictures... pictures of just about anything. I look at things with a different eye most of the time, wondering how it would look in a picture. How I can manipulate it so it ends up like the vision I have in my head. I'm weird like that, haha! I'm not super artsy fartsy, but put me behind a camera... and let me loose!

I would have loved to grow up with my own dark room and to learn about photography that way. I know there are still people who have their own dark rooms and develop their photography that way. I am not one of them. I remember when I was younger having a film camera and begging my mom to get my film developed. So, my love of photography began well before the digital era. However, then it was more point and shoot whatever than try to set up a shot. Either way... And then digital began and I got my very first digital camera... this was probably a year before Ayden was born, a 1.3 mega pixel digital camera. We're talking big league here, lol! (Especially considering that my current phone has an 8 mega pixel camera on it!)

The very first pictures I have of Ayden are all grainy and wonderful. You can't even imagine their glory! And as time progressed, so did technology and so did my want and need for an upgraded camera. It simply just continued like that, especially after I discovered the technology of editing my pictures. Let me tell you, some of those beginning ones are just wonderful, lol!

And then...

I discovered the world of dSLR! Um, hello! Blow me away! I HAD to have one, just HAD to! And when I did, I knew there would be no turning back. I had a relatively good point and shoot camera at that time and thought I would keep it to bring with me in my purse on the occasions where I didn't want to carry my big camera around. Nope, didn't use it once after getting my first dSLR. I couldn't back track.

I had my first dSLR for about two and a half years before craving an upgrade again. At this point I had begun taking pictures for others and wanted something that would last me for quite a number of years. So, I upgraded and I have a current love affair with my Canon 7D. It is my second baby. It ranks right up there with my most prized material possessions. I do find that with my current phone, a Samsung Galaxy S2, that when I do not have my big camera with me, I am always taking pictures with my camera phone. It takes relatively decent pictures when the lightening is good. The shutter lag still gets me because my dSLR is super fast, but it is good for a phone camera. And I just love taking snap shots and sharing them with my family and friends on facebook.

I don't know that I'll ever stop loving being behind the camera. I hope I don't.

You know the saying... the first child always has the most pictures and then it gets less and less with the more children you have. For some reason, I doubt that that will be the case with our second child. Maybe third or fourth, but not the second... since I haven't had the opportunity to shower a new baby with the love of my newest camera. Just not going to happen. Sorry second child, whenever you decide you may come, you will be your mommiest newest obsession! Hehe!

And in a coming post, I might just decide to share with you some recent pictures that I've taken for myself. You know, because every now and then I do tend to get behind the camera for my own purposes and don't shove my son in front of it all of the time. Actually, speaking of that, I would like to get a nice 8 year old photo shoot of him!

CIAO! LOVE ME!

Saturday, August 11, 2012

{quiet}

My house is quite quiet right now. I am the only one home. This seems to happen quite a bit lately. I won't complain. I do enjoy a bit of 'me' time every now and then. And for the majority of the time that I am home alone, Jay and Ayden happen to be spending time together, and any father/son bonding time is okay with me. Unless of course, my dear son happens to be enjoying time with his grandparents. That has been happening a lot.

Today, Ayden and Jay are fishing. I am relaxing at home and getting ready for a photoshoot later this afternoon.

I enjoyed getting to sleep in this morning, as I was up at the crack of dawn on Wednesday when I was supposed to be able to sleep in.

On the downside, the cause of my sleeping in was me being wide awake at 1:00am with a stomach ache. I swear I am turning lactose intolerant because I had some ice cream before bed. However, in retrospect, I did have a stomach ache before I had the ice cream, so having the ice cream was probably not in my best interest, but I was craving some chocolate.

I went to bed around 9:00pm... mostly because I was falling asleep as I was reading and slept until 11:30pm at which point I woke up and stayed awake. I was awake until sometime around 2:00am. At some point I moved from the bed to the living room and turned the TV on so I wouldn't wake Jay up and slept on the couch for the rest of the night. It felt good to sleep in this morning (might I mention that Ayden spent the night at Grandma and Grandpa's house, so we were child free) and then lounge on the couch watching a Lifetime Movie in my jammies until whenever I felt like getting up. I haven't had one of those kind of days in a LONG time and I needed one, oh how I needed one.

I am finished with my online class for a few weeks again. About time, I was really just getting sick of it, although I am not really looking forward to the next one either.

My supervisor is taking a few days of vacation next week and the following week so I will have a few days off. On one of those days, my mom and I are taking Ayden to Funset for his birthday. My mom took him last year for his birthday and this year I happen to have off so I am going to go with them. Before we go, Ayden and I are going to stop off by my mom's work to see everyone. I worked at the same place as my mom for a little over a year (obviously doing something different) and it will be neat to see everyone for the last time. I say the last time as my mom's employer was bought out and almost everyone is losing their job. Insert sad face.

Then, I happen to have off on Friday of next week and I am going wedding dress shopping with my mom, sister, and hopefully one of my bridesmaids. I am really excited to try on dresses again and potentially find 'the one'. I really really liked one that I tried on at this place the first time I went and I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. I am hoping my mom and sister like it just as much.

Next weekend is also my dad's side of the family camping and my birthday on Saturday. I am looking forward to going camping with my dad's family as we usually end up having a great time... that and Ayden really enjoys seeing his cousins and running around with them. I love that he is at an age where the second he sees them, he is off and running!

And so am I... to my photoshoot!

CIAO! LOVE ME!

Friday, August 10, 2012

{more non-sensical-ness}

Life drones on around me and I feel like I have nothing uber exciting to blog about. I read these awesome blogs on a daily basis and although I feel like I can convey my thoughts into writing how I want them to be, I am not anywhere near the great writer that some of my fellow bloggers are and that bums me out a bit. I know it shouldn't, but it does. I don't want my blog to be a drone on how boring my life is right now and sometimes I feel like it is. However, as much as I say that, I am not really writing for others, I write for myself and when I don't have anything going on in my life, I just don't feel like writing.

The days continue to come and go. It is pretty routine around here right now. Get up, go to clinic, come home, relax and unwind, go to bed, do it all over again. The weekends have been and continue to be busy. I like that we are busy on the weekends, but don't like that they fly by with lightening speed either!

This week I got out on a 2.6 mile walk with my bestie, Victoria. I know that I have mentioned us getting together on my blog before, so she is not new to you; however, I don't know that I've ever really given you the back story on us. (Sidenote, I've noticed that I love and overuse the word 'however'... I just like it, lol!)

So, Victoria and I have been pretty close friends since about the 7th or 8th grade... yeah, I know, it has been such a long time that I can't really even remember it. I couldn't honestly tell you how we became such good friends, nor am I sure that she could tell you either. I do know that we lived just a few blocks apart from each other for quite some time and often would walk to school together. I remember walking the long way to high school just so we could walk together. And we are still walking with each other to this day!

Victoria and I have a different kind of freindship that runs deeps. We were never the type of friends to pick up the phone and call each other, instead we wrote letters to each other. Yes, we saw each other every day, yet we still wrote each other letters almost on a daily basis too. I don't think I still have those letters, but I know at one point I had a huge binder full of them! We both love to write and it was how we communicated. Unlike with some of my other friendships, we never really had spats or arguements. We just meshed together well. And we both helped each other through some rough times.

I knew that moving to Stevens Point and farther away from Victoria meant that we wouldn't keep in touch as often and would see each other even less, but that didn't mean our friendship would mean anything different. We could go months without writing to each other, yet it would seem like not even a day had gone by when we would get together and talk for hours. I cannot tell you how great it is to be living in the same city with one of my best friends again. We have probably seen each other more in the last few months than we have in the last few years. We have always been close, but I feel that we are getting closer again and I LOVE IT! Having someone just a few minutes away that I can call up and go on a walk with on the spur of a moment... it feels good. Yes, I had friends in Stevens Point and I grew very close with a few of them, but most of them ended up moving away during the last few years... :( And honestly, friends come and go and there is nothing like talking to someone who knows you inside and out!

Even better, she has a young son who Ayden gets along with great so mommy dates can be play dates as well! It kind of just feels very refreshing.

And I've discovered another great thing about living back in Chilton (and yes for my sister if she happens to be reading this, I once again put great and living in Chilton in the same sentence again)... Jay's grandma stopped by the other night with a hot pot of bean soup for us for supper. Just out of the blue, she made a pot of bean soup for us and brought it over. Well, kind of out of the blue as she found out that Jay didn't get any bean soup while we were camping and wanted to make him some. But honestly, who does that?! I know, Grandma Hoerth! What a blessed heart she has!

CIAO! LOVE ME!

Sunday, August 5, 2012

{epic-ness}

Please excuse the awesome title of this post and the lack luster-ness that fills up the post. Life in general has been continuing to fly by at a break neck speed without any signs that it is going to slow down anytime soon. Oh well, I suppose one should be pretty used to that by now. I feel like I haven’t blogged in forever (and it has been a while for me, I usually like to blog every few days).

The month of August is big for me. Not only do I turn 26... not much of a milestone if you ask me, just another year older, but my baby turns 8. I know, I've mentioned it before, but 8. Seriously, come on people, how is that even possible? I look at this little face each day and just wonder where the last 8 years have gone! Although I've probably said the same thing on Ayden's last five birthdays, ha!

I've been going back through my blog and looking at some of my old posts and pictures and I cannot believe where I have come in the last almost four and a half years of writing. Of course people and grow and change during their life, especially as they become an adult. Who I am today is still the exact same person I was when I started this blog, in many many ways, but I am also a completely different person in so many other areas as well. Growth and change over the years my dear readers, it amazes me sometimes.

I was reading one of my earlier posts when Jay and I had been together for just five years. At that time, five years seemed like such a long time and here we are approaching our 9 year anniversary. I wrote a post back in 2009 about getting married some day and here we are, almost a year out of actually getting married. The time goes faster than anyone thinks as a child. I remember wishing the time away in high school, if only to graduate, and now (despite me still at times wishing the time away to graduate, yet again, for the third and final time), I want things to slow down. I am sick to death of watching my baby grow up. I want him to be little forever. I am scared shitless about him becoming a teenager and then an adult at some point. I'm sure every mother goes through these feelings at some point, but my baby is going to grow up and leave me at some point. Just like I left my parents and entered the 'real' world, which I'm still not even completely in yet. Ha! Guess I better consider popping some more youngin's out to keep my house full, hehe! As with everything else in my life, that time will come.

I am most anxious to just really 'start' my adult life because ever since Ayden was born, it's always been a waiting game. Go to college, finish that, then get married and have kids. Well, stupid me decided that we should prolong those options by another four years. You cannot begin to imagine what it's like to have to wait for something like that. Okay, so maybe you can. (And maybe I am over reacting just the tiniest bit.) And then not knowing if it will ever happen for you again. As blunt as it may sound, Ayden was an 'accident'... one that changed my life in ways I cannot begin to describe. One that made me whole even when I didn't know I was missing a piece.

I’m just ready to be done with this pseudo adult life. I want to start my career. I want to help support my family. I want to buy a house and know we’ll be there for a long time. I’m done with everything else. But, I have to wait, continue to be patient and wait. And I will. I mean, it is only 286 days until graduation and 412 days until I am Mrs. Hoerth. That’s right, thank you count down app on my phone! Haha!

CIAO! LOVE ME!